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How a silly goose with a weak bladder helped my marriage
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"Can you play a quick game with me pleeeease?" I asked my husband before bedtime the other night. (I wanted to demonstrate one of the games from the Halloween freebie!) It had been a REALLY long work day for him so, rightfully so, he was a little reluctant but agreed. What a guy! 😍 I closed my eyes, pointed to a random square on the sheet, and landed on a silly family storytelling game: CHALLENGE: Make up a story together, taking turns every few sentences. Use this title to get you started: Gary the Ghost Who Scared Himself Every Time He Said “Boo!” Immediately my son remembered that a previous story we'd made up using my Plot Twist app had been about a Goose named Gary, so we decided this would be a Halloween version about that same goose!
As usual, the story quickly dissolved into potty humor (my HUSBAND is the one who started it, but the kids ran with it, of course) and it was just mayhem from there. Yes, the word "goose-arrhea" was invented... I'll let you guess what it means. My husband and I started out on opposite ends of the couch, but within the first two minutes, I found myself snuggled up on his chest, cry-laughing and even scream-cackling at a few points. But if you were to press "rewind" and go back a couple days... You'd see me sobbing in my bedroom, upset about how our busy work schedules have taken over in this season and how disconnected I've been feeling from him. (With an extra heavy dose of emotions about the fact our son is about to turn 5, and it just feels BIG 😭). While we work together to figure out how to navigate work-life-balance, I'm grateful that alongside the big heart-to-hearts, we can also come back to each other through simple silliness like this. And I'm grateful our kids can see us laugh together like this:
My invitation for you this week: Get your kids involved and make up your own silly family story based on the title: Gary the Ghost Who Scared Himself Every Time He Said “Boo!” I'd love to hear how yours turns out!! (And if you haven't already downloaded my Halloween Fun freebie... download it right here!) Cheering you on always, More from Playful Heart Parenting:Activate Play Mode brings all of my favorite tools together in one place, including our parent community, private podcast, improv games, and the Silly Moments Bundle, with thousands of playful ideas to make play part of everyday parenting. |
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